Male multiple orgasm!
Jack Johnston's Male Multiple Orgasm Site offers details about Jack's discovery, the Multiple Orgasm Trigger™, and how to learn it. This is a real breakthrough for men: it produces continuous multiple orgasms with no need for any ejaculation control method. That's right - no PC squeezing, no stop/start, no ballooning, no hovering, no Tanta!
for women, the Multiple Orgasm Trigger™ makes orgasm much more intense
and - even better - easy to achieve. Women who learn this method
consistently report an end to that difficult sense of "reaching" for their orgasms, and
they enjoy a
much deeper sense of complete sexual satisfaction.
The whole basis of male multiple orgasm lies in the fact that orgasm and ejaculation are two separate processes. Once a man has learnt how he can separate the two processes, he can orgasm repeatedly - like a woman having multiple orgasms - and experience the sensations throughout his whole body. This is because it is ejaculation which stops a man getting back to full sexual readiness; orgasms are pretty much in unlimited supply, but semen and ejaculatory energy are not!
The feelings of male multiple orgasms are very different to the ejaculatory orgasms which we are used to having: they can turn into countless peaks of whole body orgasm, where the entire body seems to be charged with a profound erotic energy. The energy moves between the man and his partner, so that sex becomes something of a very different order to normal sex, even when that is between loving committed partners. The Hindu tradition actually regards sexual energy as so powerful that it can be a route to spiritual enlightenment.
Most men regard orgasm as something that happens in their genitals. But this is only because it is so tied in to ejaculation - a reflex response which happens at the root of the penis and the surrounding muscles. Move away from the genitals to the concept of orgasmic energy in the brain, and the picture becomes completely different.
Before we go any further, it is helpful to know something about male anatomy. This picture makes things clear.
The prostate gland is an important focus of male sexuality and sexual response, and it is highly sensitive to sexual stimulation. Its most obvious function, of course, is to produce seminal fluid, and especially nutrients for the sperm, but comparatively few men realize that is so sensitive to stimulation.
This stimulation can be delivered from the outside, via the perineum, the area of skin lying between the anus and scrotum, or internally, with a well lubricated finger slipped inside the anus. The prostate can be felt as a walnut sized and shaped bump through the wall of the rectum, about an inch or two inside the anus. It is in fact possible to reach an orgasm by gently rubbing your prostate gland, which becomes increasingly responsive to sexual stimulation as your arousal increases. There is a view that such stimulation can help to reduce the likelihood of future problems - I tend to the view that healthy supplements can do just as much to maintain good prostate health.
The pubococcygeus muscles (PC muscles)
These muscles run all the way from the pubic bone to the coccyx, and form the basis of the strength of your sexual response and your ability to control orgasm and ejaculation. You can see where they lie in the diagram in both men and women. (The diagram is taken from Sex: A Man's Guide, by Rodale Press, one of the best books on male sexuality I have found. )
Energy flow through the body is a major part of the concept of male multiple orgasm. You may have come across the idea of Chi or Qi, the energy which underlies all living things, and which flows through every cell of your body.
According to Taoist principles, this energy flows along meridians in the body in accordance with the intentions of the mind - so that to a large extent, the flow of energy through the body and the sensations that go with it during orgasm are the result not only of preventing ejaculation, but also having conscious intention to achieve an orgasmic experience.
Part of the multi-orgasmic experience is learning to control the flow and level of sexual energy, so there's no more being driven to ejaculate at any cost, by masturbation or sex, perhaps using porn or demanding sex from a partner: instead, the sexual energy can be brought up and around the body, rebalancing it away from the genitals so that it flows coherently through the whole body.
There are two phases to ejaculation. The first is the stage when semen is expelled from the glands of the reproductive system into the base of the penis. The second is when the muscles eject it from the body. These moments before ejaculation can be highly pleasurable, as you probably know: they are the moments when you know you are going to ejaculate and feel that delicious tightening in your PC muscles and around your anus and the base of your penis. However, when you learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation, you will experience the pleasure that comes from the activity of these muscles without the usual inevitable expulsion of semen.
So how is it done?
You start in the usual way - you get sexually aroused. Then you get an erection, and pass through the normal phase of increasing sexual excitement to the point where your prostate, your PC muscles, and your anus begin to contract in preparation for ejaculation. However, instead of carrying on, as normal, to ejaculation, you stop the stimulation, or decrease it momentarily - at least for long enough to gain control of your arousal and desire to come. But that is not the whole process, because although stopping stimulation can certainly prolong the time for which you are able to thrust in your partner before you ejaculate, this approach to male multiple orgasm requires something more.
It requires that you draw the sexual energy up and away from your genitals, so that your level of arousal decreases, and your sexual energy charges your whole body. You then build it up again with more stimulation and repeat the process of increasing your arousal to the point just before orgasm. Again, instead of crashing over into ejaculation, you spread the energy around your body and repeat the process. Each time that you do so, the energy builds to a higher and higher peak, with pleasure pulsing through every fibre of your being. If you have a partner who is also multi-orgasmic, the sensation of reaching this level of pulsating energy with her can be mind-blowing.
Most of the information here is based on The Multi Orgasmic Man, by Matak Vhia and Douglas Abrams Arava.
The first starting point is to learn how to breathe properly. Most of us in the West breathe very shallow breaths. For relaxation, and effective flow of energy round the body, deep belly breathing is necessary. You expand you belly from the diaphragm, and it is the belly that rises as you breathe in, and falls as you breathe out, rather than the chest. The next important thing to do is to strengthen the PC muscles. They are best felt by stopping the flow of urine as you pee - or by contracting them when your penis is half erect.
That very pleasurable expansion of the penis as it swells when you contract the muscles is a very effective way of identifying and learning the feel of the PC muscles. You can see how many contractions you can do in succession, or try and hold one contraction for as long as possible. The more the better, really, as far as the pleasure of orgasm is concerned, so it's hard to overdo these exercises!
You can also do a significant part of these exercises on your own, by learning how to experience sexual pleasure without orgasm during masturbation. This isn't about getting off in as short a time as possible because you are bored - it is about prolonging sexual pleasure and learning to circulate the energy around your body. If you can bring yourself to the point just before ejaculatory inevitability, and experience the muscle contractions that occur there without feeling obliged to give in and masturbate to orgasm, you are well on the road to multiple orgasms.
You can masturbate with oil, in a slow and luxurious way, slowly stroking and playing with your penis glans and shaft in between caressing your arms, legs, belly and scrotum. This whole approach to masturbation will get you back in touch with your body and make it easier for the energy to flow away from your genitals when you wish it to spread around your body. See www.tantra.com for more information.
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