Penis Size and Sexual Intercourse

Penis size and sexual intercourse

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Question: A man asks: If a man's penis is five inches or less, has he only got the option of man on top for sex? That's about my size, and I want to know how other men manage. I find that every time I enter my wife and start to thrust, my penis just pops out if we're using any positions other than the missionary. This is becoming a real problem for me, and although I've had sex with several other women, my penis size has never been an issue before.

Answer 1: Are you perhaps getting to hung up on the issue of penis size? After all, sex is bout more than the mechanics of thrusting! Why don't you try being less self-conscious about the size of your penis ad just go for it. In other words, I mean, why don't you just try fucking for fucking's sake and have a good time. Relax!

Answer 2: The question may be more about how big you and she are in body size. I am the same length and I have indeed popped out from time to time, but I think this happens to every one. What we have found is that it is more about how fat we are - if your partner is a fat woman, you may not be able to get your penis into her vagina without a risk of it falling out, and you have to take shorter strokes to keep it in there.

Answer 3: I think I can identify with this. I too pop out and find that my penis at five inches is too short for some positions - especially the side by side ones, which are sexy because you can see what you are doing!

Answer 4: But why does it matter? If you are happy with good sex in one position, then why seek out more? That may sound unambitious, but the thing is that neither my wife nor I are going to lose several stones, and short of me growing a twelve inch penis (which seems unlikely) there is nothing to be done except to accept the situation. Spooning is out - though that has more to do with our body size than my penis size - and we do manage rear entry if I hold her close.

Answer 5: I have tried several sex positions but I find that only missionary and doggy style work well for me. My penis is about five inches long.

Answer 6: Thanks, everyone. The fact is my wife's not fat, and nor am I. I'm 6 feet, 170 pounds, she's 5'4", 125 pounds. So body size isn't a problem for us. What happens when we try doggy style is that my penis goes in, but it just keeps popping out. So then, rather than focusing on what we're doing, I start worrying about how we're doing it. We don't try doggy or spooning for these reasons, but I still want to.

Answer 7: Yes, the answer you're all missing is woman on top - whatever her size, big or small, she can give you the greatest pleasure if she climbs on you and rides up and down your cock. Just make sure she doesn't go too fast or too hard in case you pop out - if she hits your penis with her full weight it's not only painful but can be dangerous too. You don't want a broken penis!

Answer 8: Well, I disagree with many of you here. My penis is 4.75 inches long, tops, and my wife is a big woman, and we successfully had sex in the missionary and doggy style. Sure, we did occasionally have problems with the woman on top game, but that was easily remedied - she just moved up and down less. I did pop out of her on occasion, but probably because my penis was so hard and upright when erect - it wanted to lie against my belly rather than go into her pussy!

Answer 9: The answer to this perennial question is for you to adapt the classic positions so that you can find something that is more comfortable. For example, in doggy position, the woman can keep her legs together so that she exerts more pressure on the man's penis and he is less likely to thrust as far and as hard (he has more feeling if she keeps her legs closed). A small penis is not such a hardship - you just need to experiment to find the right sex positions.

Answer 10: A most practical piece of advice: if you don't try to have sex because of the fear of your penis coming out of her vagina, you'll never get any pussy! My advice would be just do it - if you pop out while you're making love, just pop your dick right back in and carry on!

Answer 11: The answer is practice and patience - and not to be worried if you just want to use a few familiar and comfortable positions. You don't have to be a sexual adventurer.

Answer 12: Hi Here is a good one:
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/kama/articles/0,,284388_416167,00.html
This is especially good for women, if you can get the rhythm and the movement right. In fact, as a sex position for a man with a small penis, it's unbeatable.